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JAPAN Forward has launched "Ignite," a series to share the voices of students in Japan in English. What do they see beyond our obvious differences, disabilities, and insecurities? Individually and collectively, today's students have the power to shape our global future. Let's listen.
This fourth essay introduces another winning work of the Institute for International Business Communication (IIBC) high school student English essay contest. In the following essay, Lynne Mizushima, a high school student in Kanagawa Prefecture, recounts the disruption she felt at the way a foreign exchange student staying with her family embraced life to the fullest. In addition to learning about Japan, the visitor enthusiastically shared her own culture and values, leaving her host family with a new perspective on the meaning of "cultural exchange."
Fourth in the Series, 'Ignite'
Lynne Mizushima, Winner of the 2024 IIBC English Contest Excellence Award
Dark clouds hung over us and raindrops pattered on our umbrellas as we approached Enoshima Beach. It was an unusually cold day in June and I shivered as the wind chilled my damp clothes. The next moment, my friend gave me a mischievous smile.
"Let's swim in the ocean!"
I gaped at her. She would surely catch a cold. However, she ignored my pleas and sprinted into the water before I knew it. I was left stranded on the beach yelling at her to come back, helpless and exasperated. It was only after twenty minutes that she finally came back to shore with her clothes dripping wet. She's crazy, I thought to myself.
"Why? Why did you go in?"
She met my incredulous eyes with a smile and replied, "Because, fear is temporary but regret is forever."
She explained that she would have regretted not going in despite the weather, and told me she would remember this moment forever, even when her hair turns gray. While I was hesitant in accepting that reasoning, I conceded that I too would likely remember this moment for the rest of my life.
Discovering New Dimensions
This is the absolute whirlwind that is my Moroccan friend Noha, who my family hosted as part of an exchange program last summer. Lively and unpredictable yet one of the most considerate people I have ever encountered, Noha left a profound impact on me during her two-week stay in Japan.
"Let me take you to a Moroccan restaurant," she said to me and my friends one day. I was perplexed by her sudden proposal.
"Why? You're in Japan, wouldn't you rather eat Japanese food?"
She eagerly explained that she wanted to introduce us to Moroccan food. At the restaurant she taught us Arabic words like shukran which means "thank you" and I tried Moroccan dishes like Briwats (a triangle-shaped savory pastry) and Tagine (a slow-cooked stew). Over the course of that dinner, I gained insight and understanding about Moroccan cuisine and culture.
I recognized that Noha was not only eager to immerse herself in the Japanese experience, but also excited to share her own cultural heritage with us. Furthermore, I was struck with the realization that all the times I had been abroad, I had always been solely intent on absorbing foreign culture. Noha inspired me to devote more effort to sharing my own culture on future occasions.
Spreading Thanks
"I want to get flowers for everyone in our class," Noha said to me the evening before her departure.
"Why? Is that even possible?" I was in disbelief at her grand and ambitious idea.
She said, "I just really want to thank everyone."
While I still had doubts, we went to a flower shop and picked out over 50 flowers of different kinds. We brought home an enormous bouquet which stunned both my parents. I then opened my eyes the next day to see that Noha had spent the entire night neatly wrapping the flowers one by one. I was in absolute awe.
Learning the Power of 'Why'
Noha was one of the most unique people I had ever encountered, and I followed nearly everything she did with one question: "Why?" To my conventional ways of thinking, her actions often left me baffled. However, uncovering her underlying rationale helped me understand and accept her actions completely.
It is common for people to judge others when they are acting in a way that is not normal to them, especially if they are of different backgrounds. However, asking a simple "Why?" can alter conventional thinking and offer fresh perspectives. Noha was wild but always very sure of her actions. She had pride in her cultural heritage and didn't fail to show it. [And] she had great kindness in her heart and would always find a way of expressing it.
She always took action in what she believed to be important, and spending time with her completely transformed the norms I previously held. I feel very lucky to have met someone like her, and I hope to be equally inspiring to others in my own unique way in the future.
About the Author:
Lynne Mizushima is a student at Keio Shonan Fujisawa Junior and Senior High School in Kanagawa Prefecture. She delivered this comment upon receiving the IIBC Excellence Award for her essay submission:
I am truly honored to receive the Excellence Award. In this essay, I wrote about my memories of a friend from Morocco whom I met during an exchange program. Being exposed to different cultures and ways of thinking has greatly changed my own values. I am happy to be able to share my precious memories with her with so many people.
In writing the essay, I went through a lot of trial and error to make sure that the reader would find it interesting. Improving the essay was fun and a very good experience. Finally, I would like to express my deepest gratitude to the teachers who guided me.
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Author: Lynne Mizushima
Student, Keio Shonan Fujisawa Junior and Senior High School
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